Solution

There are normally two steps when trying to find a solution. First, one need to have a realistic understanding of the situation. Then, after accepting the problem, it would be possible to come up the solution. Might not be the best solution. But it could be the best in the direction one has to go.

I know this well and I applied this a lot. But there are problems you just cannot be rational about. I spent all my twenties back and forth trying to pass the first step of one particular problem. I decided my 30th birthday would be the deadline. Now I am 30 years old plus 7 months. I think I am doing like I planned. But believe, I still dream sometimes.